About 6 weeks ago, my husband told me that hes no longer attracted to me and he knows I was just diagnosed with pcos and have gained weight. I weigh 153 right now and am 4”11, 30 years old, have 2 kiddos.
We have been together 14 years and since he has told me this, I feel very upset, sad, confused, and lost. I asked him over and over when did he start feeling this way.
To add onto that , he wants to have sex and wants me to do sexual favors (sorry tmi : blowjobs) and I don’t want to. Not… read more
I refuse to let this get to me , but some things some days are harder than others. I also don’t want this to take over and put me in a bad mood. I went yesterday and got out of the house, got a pedicure, to help me relax. Because it ruined my morning.
I want to just enjoy my kids , my life, and hope as he is doing therapy for the first time , he can see what he did wrong or could have done better.
To all you ladies out there , going through whatever you are going through I pray god gives us the strength to get through this. You are worthy, we are worthy, no matter what… tries to put us down. I am looking forward to go to church today with the kiddos because … like I said , these ups and down have been taking a toll on me .
Receive virtual hugs for all you're going through.
Let it not dampen your spirit.
May you have the strength to take care of those 2 kiddos.
Men are stupid when their brains take a hold of them. He will regret it if he does cheat. I told my husband if he ever did that I’m gone. You deserve not someone who wants something like that if he says what he said. I’d feel the same as you feel.
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