I trust God fully with His plan for my life. If He says no to having children then I know it's because He has something else in mind for me and I'm okay with that because I know only a perfect God can design a perfect plan for my life. Does it still hurt? Oh yes but I trust that God knows what he is doing and I know He loves me.
I just recently confirm I had PCOS I am 33 and in the past 2 years I been thinking of having a baby. I tell myself if I cant have a child I know there is adoption so maybe I will start putting money aside cause adoption is not cheap. I am single I date guys that have kids from time to time and I feel bad I cannot have that joy at this time. My nephew makes things all better for me he tells me I'm like his mom cause I help take care of him 😁. Everytime I get sad I think of all the other good things I have around me and I'm not giving up. Reading your stories I realize that were not alone and that maybe one day we will wake up to a miracle for now stay strong and sending out positive vibes.
I found out i had pcos at 32 ive had false positive pregnancy test ive had miscarriages and i dont talk abt it much because no one could understand because they have kids i made up in my mind along time ago that i didn't want any kids because the hardest thing in life is to carry a baby then lose it or have all the symptoms in the world and you take a pregnancy test and its negative so i just take care of everybody elses kids and enjoy them to the fullest of life just because we can't conceive dont mean we can't be parents although every woman wanna feel there baby heart beat kick feel it move and go threw the whole experience but sometimes we don't get to go threw that but its always adoption tiny you will see her again IVF metformin take it consistently like you should you know following strict diet plan you know certain things that will accommodate your body it hurt to think or feel like we will neva know what thats like but you pray and try your hardest to make peace with the illness and bless a kid whos here on earth already with a beautiful home up bringing and great parents ladies keep yall heads up it will be okay just take it one day at a time 😘😘😘😘
I’m crying as I’m typing this all along I felt so alone like I’m the only one going through this. I’m 31 and have been married for 12 years. I love my husband beyond measures he is the most beautiful thing that’s has happened to me so far in this life. I wish I could wake up one day and surprise him with a + Pregnancy test. Some days are good and some days I don’t want to talk to anybody because all I hear is when are you’ll gonna have a baby y’all would make such a beautiful baby. And allll my friends & family have babies except me I feel as I’m failing myself as a woman and my husband as a wife. :( but now I’m here reading all yalls responses and I don’t feel so alone but I’m still sad I wish we would all wake up to a positive test tomorrow someday! 🤗 (hugs)
I have cried a lot too. And the one thing I hate hearing is "God will give you one when you're ready". Im pretty sure every one knows someone that wasn't ready for a child, and I know a few who don't deserve them. It's just basically a tough pill to swallow sometimes. And I only get like this when I'm around babies, or someone makes a pregnancy announcement. I feel ridiculous feeling this way but hey, I'm human.