doesn't take long for my mate to make sure my needs are taken care of if I am in the mood, if not in the mood then we skip my end of the deal and just focus on them instead.

I reach my peak almost to quickly. There are some tips on the Internet for more stimulation, you dont need to use special things for it. A feather or a blindfold or lighting a scented candle
for example.

Got this from google: lubricant gel is something between a fluid and semisolid gel with a high content of water, which is to be applied on the genitals before sexual intercourse

I wish! Almost never for me

Are you the one reaching it easily?

What's lubricant?
Ps: I am from a different culture where taking about this subject is shameful and a big No-No!