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First, just want to say — what you've carried, for so long and so young, is a lot. The fact that you're still fighting for yourself is genuinely remarkable. You are absolutely not alone in this.

Let's work through your questions one by one. On Metformin side effects

Stomach pain and frequent urination on Metformin are Show Full Answer

First, just want to say — what you've carried, for so long and so young, is a lot. The fact that you're still fighting for yourself is genuinely remarkable. You are absolutely not alone in this.

Let's work through your questions one by one. On Metformin side effects

Stomach pain and frequent urination on Metformin are very commonly reported. Many people find that taking it with food, or switching to the extended-release version, can significantly reduce those side effects. It's absolutely worth bringing this up with your doctor — there may be a version or dosage that works better for your body. On managing weight, periods, and facial hair

Managing PCOS symptoms often involves a combination of approaches. Here are options worth discussing with your doctor:

- Hormonal birth control — can help regulate periods and reduce facial hair growth
- Progestin therapy — a good alternative if combination birth control isn't suitable; helps protect the uterus and trigger regular periods
- Metformin (extended-release) — when tolerated, it can support weight management alongside healthy eating and movement
- NSAIDs like ibuprofen — can help with period pain specifically
- Anti-androgen medications — can help reduce facial hair growth

No single approach works for everyone, so it may take some trial and error with your care team. On infertility and conceiving with PCOS

Many people with PCOS do go on to conceive, though it can take time and support. A myPCOSteam member shared: *"I take it one day at a time and do what the doctor says. My advice for anyone who has PCOS is to never give up. Always look for more options; keep your options open."*

Fertility treatment options that doctors commonly explore include:

- Letrozole (Femara) — currently considered the most effective first-line option for triggering ovulation in people with PCOS
- Clomiphene (Clomid) — an older but still used alternative
- IVF — an option when other treatments haven't worked, though it does carry a risk of ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (OHSS), which is worth discussing with a specialist

It's a painful road, and your grief around this is completely valid. You're far from alone in feeling it. On advocating for sedated exams

Requesting a pelvic exam or Pap smear under sedation is a completely legitimate ask, and pushing for it through your clinic is the right move. Going in for a "talking-only" visit first to lay out your needs — without any physical exam pressure — is a really smart and brave approach. Be clear, specific, and don't minimize your pain. You deserve care that feels safe.

You've already taken the hardest step by deciding to go back. That matters more than you know.

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